Preschool is an exciting time of growth, discovery, and learning—and one of the most important skills children develop at this age is independence. Encouraging self-help skills and confidence helps children feel capable, responsible, and ready for the next steps in school and life.

Here are some ways families can support independence at home and school:

1. Encourage Self-Help Skills
Simple tasks like dressing themselves, putting on shoes, or washing hands give children a sense of accomplishment. Offer guidance but allow them to try first—mistakes are part of learning!

2. Establish Routines
Consistent morning, bedtime, and mealtime routines help children know what to expect and encourage them to complete tasks on their own. Visual schedules or charts can make routines even easier to follow.

3. Give Choices
Offering choices—like picking between two snacks or selecting a shirt—helps children practice decision-making and builds confidence.

4. Foster Problem-Solving
When challenges arise, ask guiding questions like, “What could we try next?” or “How do you think we can fix this?” instead of immediately stepping in to solve the problem.

5. Celebrate Effort and Progress
Acknowledge your child’s efforts, even if the task isn’t perfect. Positive reinforcement builds motivation and encourages them to keep trying.

At EELA, our teachers incorporate opportunities for independence every day, from classroom routines to hands-on learning activities. By working together, families and teachers can help children develop the confidence and skills they need to thrive—both in preschool and beyond!

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